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Kelleher International

The short answer

Kelleher International is a high-end matchmaking firm founded in 1986. Its own FAQ says fees run from $50,000 to $500,000, and its terms say fees are paid in full at signing and are non-refundable.

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Key takeaways

  • Kelleher's own FAQ says fees range from $50,000 to $500,000 (Kelleher FAQ, checked Oct 15, 2026).
  • Every membership includes a three-person team, coaching and a 1 to 2-year active search, plus up to 12 months of hold time (Kelleher FAQ, checked Oct 15, 2026).
  • Its terms say the retainer is due in full at signing and all fees are non-refundable (Kelleher terms, checked Oct 15, 2026).
  • Its terms ask clients not to post negative remarks for 5 years after the contract without first contacting Kelleher (Kelleher terms).
  • Kelleher lists matchmaking teams in 20 cities, from Los Angeles to London (Kelleher, checked Oct 15, 2026).
  • Its Trustpilot profile showed 0 reviews when we checked (Trustpilot, Oct 15, 2026).
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What is Kelleher International?

Kelleher International is a luxury matchmaking firm. It was founded in 1986 by Jill Kelleher, and her daughter Amber Kelleher-Andrews leads it now (Wikipedia). Instead of one matchmaker, you get a team of three.

Fact What we found Source
Website Kelleher International Checked Oct 15, 2026
Founded 1986. Co-founders Jill Kelleher and Amber Kelleher-Andrews homepage · checked Oct 15, 2026
Your team A market director, a relationship manager and a network developer FAQ · checked Oct 15, 2026
Process Application, consultation, onboarding interview, curated matching, then an introduction with feedback after each date FAQ · checked Oct 15, 2026
Fee $50,000 to $500,000, “with many factors determining this fee” FAQ · checked Oct 15, 2026
Term 1 to 2-year active search, plus up to 12 months of hold time FAQ · checked Oct 15, 2026
Payment Retainer due in full when you sign terms · checked Oct 15, 2026
Refunds “All fees paid to Kelleher are non-refundable” terms · checked Oct 15, 2026
Who you meet People who have paid and people who have not. Introductions to members of the opposite sex terms · checked Oct 15, 2026
Success claim The company says 89%. It doesn’t show how it measures that FAQ · checked Oct 15, 2026

How much does Kelleher International cost?

Kelleher prints a fee range on its own site. Its FAQ says each client gets a custom package, and the fee “can range from $50,000 up to $500,000” (Kelleher FAQ, checked Oct 15, 2026).

A competitor has published lower numbers. VIDA Select, which sells its own dating service, reports a local search from $30,000, extra cities at $5,000 each, a national search from $45,000 and an international tier from $150,000 to $300,000 and up (VIDA Select, updated Oct 10, 2026). Those figures cite older public reports. Kelleher’s own page is newer and higher, so plan around $50,000 as the floor.

Kelleher International fees, checked Oct 15, 2026
  1. Kelleher's own published range (published on its website) · checked Oct 15, 2026
  2. Local search, reported by VIDA Select (a competitor) (published on its website) · checked Oct 15, 2026
  3. National search, reported by VIDA Select (a competitor) (published on its website) · checked Oct 15, 2026
  4. International tier, reported by VIDA Select (a competitor) (published on its website) · checked Oct 15, 2026

For how this compares with the rest of the market, see our professional matchmaker cost guide.

What do Kelleher’s contract terms say?

Credit where it’s due. Kelleher posts its client terms online, so you can read them before you ever call. These points stood out when we read them on October 15, 2026 (terms):

  • No refunds. The retainer is “payable in full” at signing, and all fees are non-refundable.
  • No refund if they end it. Kelleher can end the contract for reasons like rude behavior or false information, and keep the fees.
  • No promises. Kelleher “cannot guarantee” you will find a partner.
  • Feedback is required. You must send a feedback form after each introduction before you get the next one.
  • Limited screening. The terms say Kelleher does “limited screening” and no medical, legal or psychological testing.
  • A 5-year review clause. You agree not to make negative public remarks, including on review sites, during your membership or for five years after, without first contacting Kelleher to try to resolve it.
  • New York clients: $1,000 of the fee applies to New York referrals, and the section mentions a hold of up to one year and at least six referrals a year.
  • California clients: if you move more than 50 miles and Kelleher can’t transfer your contract, you may be released from future payments, with a $100 or $50 fee.

On the review clause, the FTC says the Consumer Review Fairness Act makes it illegal for businesses to use standard contract terms that threaten or penalize people for posting honest reviews (FTC). How that law applies to this clause is a question for a lawyer, not for us. Ask Kelleher how it works before you sign.

Our matchmaker contract checklist walks through each clause. For state cancellation windows, see dating service contract cancellation rights.

Kelleher lists teams in 20 cities: Los Angeles, San Francisco, New York, Miami, Denver, Las Vegas, San Diego, Washington DC, Toronto, Chicago, Boston, Seattle, Vancouver, Atlanta, Houston, Dallas, Austin, Newport Beach, Scottsdale and London (Kelleher, checked Oct 15, 2026).

Its FAQ says it can run multi-city and international searches for people who travel a lot. The competitor report above ties price to scope: local, national, then international. Ask which scope your quote covers, and how many introductions it means.

What do Kelleher International reviews say?

There isn’t much to read.

  • Trustpilot: the profile was claimed in July 2026 and showed 0 reviews when we checked (Trustpilot, Oct 15, 2026).
  • BBB and Yelp: we couldn’t confirm a profile and its numbers ourselves, so we’re not quoting any.
  • A competitor’s summary: VIDA Select says Yelp and BBB reviewers report paying $15,000 to $25,000 or more, with complaints about match quality (VIDA Select). We couldn’t open those reviews to check, and VIDA Select sells a competing service.
  • Kelleher’s own testimonials are glowing, as testimonials always are.

So you’re mostly deciding on references and the contract. Ask for two references who joined in the last two years and are close to your age. Our guide to reading dating coach reviews covers how to tell a real review from a planted one.

Who is Kelleher a good fit for?

It fits someone with a busy, private life who wants a team doing the search and can lose the whole fee without it hurting. It doesn’t fit someone who is stretching to afford it, or who wants a refund if it doesn’t work out.

What should you ask before you sign?

Questions for a Kelleher consultation

What are the alternatives?

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Three Day Rule From $6,300, per its blog Photos before dates; 15 metro areas Three Day Rule cost
Tawkify From $4,900 for 3 matches, per Innerbody Dates planned for you; nationwide Tawkify cost
The Matchmaking Company Not published Local offices in many states The Matchmaking Company reviews
Other services for busy professionals Varies Compare a few side by side Matchmaking service for professionals

If you’re not sure you need a matchmaker at all, read is a matchmaker worth it, then compare options on our matchmaking services near me page. Or book a free consultation, which sends your request to me alone.

Questions people ask

How much does Kelleher International cost?

Its own FAQ says fees range from $50,000 to $500,000, depending on the package. A competitor reports lower starting points from older materials, but Kelleher's own page is the better guide.

Does Kelleher International give refunds?

Its terms say all fees are non-refundable. The terms list narrow exceptions, such as death or disability, and a relocation rule for some California clients.

How long does a Kelleher membership last?

Its FAQ says every membership has a 1 to 2-year active search term, plus up to 12 months of hold time if you meet someone.

Who will Kelleher introduce me to?

Its terms say introductions can include people who have paid and people who have not. The terms also describe introductions to members of the opposite sex.

Why are there so few Kelleher International reviews?

We can't say for sure. Its Trustpilot page had 0 reviews when we checked, and its terms include a 5-year clause about negative public remarks.

Does Kelleher work with women?

Yes. It has a page for women, and on that page it answers whether it's a significant investment with 'Yes, and intentionally so.'

Is Kelleher International worth it?

Only if losing the whole fee wouldn't hurt you. The fees are non-refundable and no one can promise chemistry, so you're paying for effort, not results.